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  The Essays of Montaigne; V6
  by Michel de Montaigne
  Translated by Charles Cotton
  Edited by William Carew Hazilitt
  1877
  CONTENTS OF VOLUME 6。
  XXVII。    Of friendship。
  XXVIII。   Nine…and…twenty sonnets of Estienne de la Boetie。
  XXIX。     Of moderation。
  XXX。      Of cannibals。
  XXXI。     That a man is soberly to judge of the divine ordinances。
  XXXII。    That we are to avoid pleasures; even at the expense of life。
  XXXIII。   That fortune is oftentimes observed to act by the rule of
  reason。
  XXXIV。    Of one defect in our government。
  XXXV。     Of the custom of wearing clothes。
  XXXVI。    Of Cato the Younger。
  XXXVII。   That we laugh and cry for the same thing。
  XXXVIII。  Of solitude。
  CHAPTER XXVII
  OF FRIENDSHIP
  Having considered the proceedings of a painter that serves me; I had a
  mind to imitate his way。  He chooses the fairest place and middle of any
  wall; or panel; wherein to draw a picture; which he finishes with his
  utmost care and art; and the vacuity about it he fills with grotesques;
  which are odd fantastic figures without any grace but what they derive
  from their variety; and the extravagance of their shapes。  And in truth;
  what are these things I scribble; other than grotesques and monstrous
  bodies; made of various parts; without any certain figure; or any other
  than accidental order; coherence; or proportion?
  〃Desinit in piscem mulier formosa superne。〃
  '〃A fair woman in her upper form terminates in a fish。〃
  Horace; De Arte Poetica; v。 4。'
  In this second part I go hand in hand with my painter; but fall very
  short of him in the first and the better; my power of handling not being
  such; that I dare to offer at a rich piece; finely polished; and set off
  according to art。  I have therefore thought fit to borrow one of Estienne
  de la Boetie; and such a one as shall honour and adorn all the rest of my
  worknamely; a discourse that he called 'Voluntary Servitude'; but;
  since; those who did not know him have properly enough called it 〃Le
  contr Un。〃  He wrote in his youth;'〃Not being as yet eighteen years
  old。〃Edition of 1588。' by way of essay; in honour of liberty against
  tyrants; and it has since run through the hands of men of great learning
  and judgment; not without singular and merited commendation; for it is
  finely written; and as full as anything can possibly be。  And yet one may
  confidently say it is far short of what he was able to do; and if in that
  more mature age; wherein I had the happiness to know him; he had taken a
  design like this of mine; to commit his thoughts to writing; we should
  have seen a great many rare things; and such as would have gone very near
  to have rivalled the best writings of antiquity: for in natural parts
  especially; I know no man comparable to him。  But he has left nothing
  behind him; save this treatise only (and that too by chance; for I
  believe he never saw it after it first went out of his hands); and some
  observations upon that edict of January '1562; which granted to the
  Huguenots the public exercise of their religion。' made famous by our
  civil…wars; which also shall elsewhere; peradventure; find a place。
  These were all I could recover of his remains; I to whom with so
  affectionate a remembrance; upon his death…bed; he by his last will
  bequeathed his library and papers; the little book of his works only
  excepted; which I committed to the press。  And this particular obligation
  I have to this treatise of his; that it was the occasion of my first
  coming acquainted with him; for it was showed to me long before I had the
  good fortune to know him; and the first knowledge of his name; proving
  the first cause and foundation of a friendship; which we afterwards
  improved and maintained; so long as God was pleased to continue us
  together; so perfect; inviolate; and entire; that certainly the like is
  hardly to be found in story; and amongst the men of this age; there is no
  sign nor trace of any such thing in use; so much concurrence is required
  to the building of such a one; that 'tis much; if fortune bring it but
  once to pass in three ages。
  There is nothing to which nature seems so much to have inclined us; as to
  society; and Aristotle ; says that the good legislators had more respect
  to friendship than to justice。  Now the most supreme point of its
  perfection is this: for; generally; all those that pleasure; profit;
  public or private interest create and nourish; are so much the less
  beautiful and generous; and so much the less friendships; by how much
  they mix another cause; and design; and fruit in friendship; than itself。
  Neither do the four ancient kinds; natural; social; hospitable; venereal;
  either separately or jointly; make up a true and perfect friendship。
  That of children to parents is rather respect: friendship is nourished by
  communication; which cannot by reason of the great disparity; be betwixt
  these; but would rather perhaps offend the duties of nature; for neither
  are all the secret thoughts of fathers fit to be communicated to
  children; lest it beget an indecent familiarity betwixt them; nor can the
  advices and reproofs; which is one of the principal offices of
  friendship; be properly performed by the son to the father。  There are
  some countries where 'twas the custom for children to kill their fathers;
  and others; where the fathers killed their children; to avoid their being
  an impediment one to another in life; and naturally the expectations of
  the one depend upon the ruin of the other。  There have been great
  philosophers who have made nothing of this tie of nature; as Aristippus
  for one; who being pressed home about the affection he owed to his
  children; as being come out of him; presently fell to spit; saying; that
  this also came out of him; and that we also breed worms and lice; and
  that other; that Plutarch endeavoured to reconcile to his brother:
  〃I make never the more account of him;〃 said he; 〃for coming out of the
  same hole。〃  This name of brother does indeed carry with it a fine and
  delectable sound; and for that reason; he and I called one another
  brothers but the complication of interests; the division of estates; and
  that the wealth of the one should be the property of the other; strangely
  relax and weaken the fraternal tie: brothers pursuing their fortune and
  advancement by the same path; 'tis hardly possible but they must of
  necessity often jostle and hinder one another。  Besides; why is it
  necessary that the correspondence of manners; parts; and inclinations;
  which begets the true and perfect friendships; should always meet in
  these relations?  The father and the son may be of quite contrary
  humours; and so of brothers: he is my son; he is my brother; but he is
  passionate; ill…natured; or a fool。  And moreover; by how much these are
  friendships that the law and natural obligation impose upon us; so much
  less is there of our own choice and voluntary freedom; whereas that
  voluntary liberty of ours has no production more promptly and; properly
  its own than affection and friendship。  Not that I have not in my own
  person experimented all that can possibly be expected of that kind;
  having had the best and most indulgent father; even to his extreme old
  age; that ever was; and who was himself descended from a family for many
  generations famous and exemplary for brotherly concord:
  〃Et ipse
  Notus in fratres animi paterni。〃
  '〃And I myself; known for paternal love toward my brothers。〃
  Horace; Ode; ii。 2; 6。
  We are not here to bring the love we bear to women; though it be an act
  of our own choice; into comparison; nor rank it with the others。  The
  fire of this; I confess;
  〃Neque enim est dea nescia nostri
  Qux dulcem curis miscet amaritiem;〃
  '〃Nor is the goddess unknown to me who mixes a sweet bitterness
  with my love。〃…Catullus; lxviii。 17。'
  is more active; more eager; and more sharp: but withal; 'tis more
  precipitant; fickle; moving; and inconstant; a fever subject to
  intermissions and paroxysms; that has seized but on one part of us。
  Whereas in friendship; 'tis a general and universal fire; but temperate
  and equal; a constant established heat; all gentle and smooth; without
  poignancy or roughness。  Moreover; in love; 'tis no other than frantic
  desire for that which flies from us:
  〃Come segue la lepre il cacciatore
  Al freddo; al caldo; alla montagna; al lito;
  Ne piu l'estima poi the presa vede;
  E sol dietro a chi fugge affretta il piede〃
  '〃As the hunter pursues the hare; in cold and heat; to the mountain;
  to the shore; nor cares for it farther when he sees it taken; and
  only delights in chasing that which flees from him。〃Aristo; x。 7。'
  so soon as it enters unto the terms of friendship; that is to say; into a
  concurrence of desires; it vanishes and is gone; fruition destroys it;
  as having only a fleshly end; and such a one as is subject to satiety。
  Friendship; on the contrary; is enjoyed proportionably as it is desired;
  and only grows up; is nourished and