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淋雨 更新:2021-12-07 09:32 字数:9321
tolerate at all。 But something like a change of heart is still possible; and
since all the evils of snobbery and segregation are rampant in our schools
at present we may as well make the best as the worst of them。
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A TREATISE ON PARENTS AND CHILDREN
Children's Rights and Duties
Now let us ask what are a child's rights; and what are the rights of
society over the child。 Its rights; being clearly those of any other human
being; are summed up in the right to live: that is; to have all the
conclusive arguments that prove that it would be better dead; that it is a
child of wrath; that the population is already excessive; that the pains of
life are greater than its pleasures; that its sacrifice in a hospital or
laboratory experiment might save millions of lives; etc。 etc。 etc。; put out of
the question; and its existence accepted as necessary and sacred; all
theories to the contrary notwithstanding; whether by Calvin or
Schopenhauer or Pasteur or the nearest person with a taste for infanticide。
And this right to live includes; and in fact is; the right to be what the child
likes and can; to do what it likes and can; to make what it likes and can; to
think what it likes and can; to smash what it dislikes and can; and
generally to behave in an altogether unaccountable manner within the
limits imposed by the similar rights of its neighbors。 And the rights of
society over it clearly extend to requiring it to qualify itself to live in
society without wasting other peoples time: that is; it must know the
rules of the road; be able to read placards and proclamations; fill voting
papers; compose and send letters and telegrams; purchase food and
clothing and railway tickets for itself; count money and give and take
change; and; generally; know how many beans made five。 It must know
some law; were it only a simple set of commandments; some political
economy; agriculture enough to shut the gates of fields with cattle in them
and not to trample on growing crops; sanitation enough not to defile its
haunts; and religion enough to have some idea of why it is allowed its
rights and why it must respect the rights of others。 And the rest of its
education must consist of anything else it can pick up; for beyond this
society cannot go with any certainty; and indeed can only go this far rather
apologetically and provisionally; as doing the best it can on very uncertain
ground。
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A TREATISE ON PARENTS AND CHILDREN
Should Children Earn their Living?
Now comes the question how far children should be asked to
contribute to the support of the community。 In approaching it we must
put aside the considerations that now induce all humane and thoughtful
political students to agitate for the uncompromising abolition of child
labor under our capitalist system。 It is not the least of the curses of that
system that it will bequeath to future generations a mass of legislation to
prevent capitalists from 〃using up nine generations of men in one
generation;〃 as they began by doing until they were restrained by law at
the suggestion of Robert Owen; the founder of English Socialism。 Most
of this legislation will become an insufferable restraint upon freedom and
variety of action when Capitalism goes the way of Druidic human
sacrifice (a much less slaughterous institution)。 There is every reason
why a child should not be allowed to work for commercial profit or for the
support of its parents at the expense of its own future; but there is no
reason whatever why a child should not do some work for its own sake
and that of the community if it can be shewn that both it and the
community will be the better for it。
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A TREATISE ON PARENTS AND CHILDREN
Children's Happiness
Also it is important to put the happiness of the children rather carefully
in its place; which is really not a front place。 The unsympathetic; selfish;
hard people who regard happiness as a very exceptional indulgence to
which children are by no means entitled; though they may be allowed a
very little of it on their birthdays or at Christmas; are sometimes better
parents in effect than those who imagine that children are as capable of
happiness as adults。 Adults habitually exaggerate their own capacity in
that direction grossly; yet most adults can stand an allowance of happiness
that would be quite thrown away on children。 The secret of being
miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not。
The cure for it is occupation; because occupation means pre…occupation;
and the pre…occupied person is neither happy nor unhappy; but simply
alive and active; which is pleasanter than any happiness until you are tired
of it。 That is why it is necessary to happiness that one should be tired。
Music after dinner is pleasant: music before breakfast is so unpleasant as
to be clearly unnatural。 To people who are not overworked holidays are a
nuisance。 To people who are; and who can afford them; they are a
troublesome necessity。 A perpetual holiday is a good working definition
of hell。
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A TREATISE ON PARENTS AND CHILDREN
The Horror of the Perpetual
Holiday
It will be said here that; on the contrary; heaven is always conceived as
a perpetual holiday; and that whoever is not born to an independent
income is striving for one or longing for one because it gives holidays for
life。 To which I reply; first; that heaven; as conventionally conceived; is
a place so inane; so dull; so useless; so miserable; that nobody has ever
ventured to describe a whole day in heaven; though plenty of people have
described a day at the seaside; and that the genuine popular verdict on it is
expressed in the proverb 〃Heaven for holiness and Hell for company。〃
Second; I point out that the wretched people who have independent
incomes and no useful occupation; do the most amazingly disagreeable
and dangerous things to make themselves tired and hungry in the evening。
When they are not involved in what they call sport; they are doing
aimlessly what other people have to be paid to do: driving horses and
motor cars; trying on dresses and walking up and down to shew them off;
and acting as footmen and housemaids to royal personages。 The sole and
obvious cause of the notion that idleness is delightful and that heaven is a
place where there is nothing to be done; is our school system and our
industrial system。 The school is a prison in which work is a punishment
and a curse。 In avowed prisons; hard labor; the only alleviation of a
prisoner's lot; is treated as an aggravation of his punishment; and
everything possible is done to intensify the prisoner's inculcated and
unnatural notion that work is an evil。 In industry we are overworked and
underfed prisoners。 Under such absurd circumstances our judgment of
things becomes as perverted as our habits。 If we were habitually
underworked and overfed; our notion of heaven would be a place where
everybody worked strenuously for twenty…four hours a day and never got
anything to eat。
Once realize that a perpetual holiday is beyond human endurance; and
that 〃Satan finds some mischief still for idle hands to do〃 and it will be
seen that we have no right to impose a perpetual holiday