第 10 节
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They realized how they have been handicapped by their poor mental tools。
That is why they say; 〃All my life I have been handicapped by lack of proper preparation。 Don't make my mistake; children; go to school。〃
The young person with electrical genius will make an electrical machine from a few bits of junk。 But send him to Westinghouse and see how much more he will achieve with the same genius and with finer equipment。
Get the best tools you can。 But remember diplomas; degrees are not an education; they are merely preparations。 When you are thru with the books; remember; you are having a commencement; not an end…ment。 You will discover with the passing years that life is just one series of greater commencements。
Go out with your fine equipment from your commencements into the school of service and write your education in the only book you ever can knowthe book of your experience。
That is what you knowwhat the courts will take as evidence when they put you upon the witness stand。
The Tragedy of Unpreparedness
The story of Gussie and Bill Whackem is being written in every community in tears; failure and heartache。 It is peculiarly a tragedy of our American civilization today。
These fathers and mothers who toil and save; who get great farms; fine homes and large bank accounts; so often think they can give greatness to their childrenthey can make great places for them in life and put them into them。
They do all this and the children rattle。 They have had no chance to grow great enough for the places。 The child gets the blame for making the wreck; even as Gussie was blamed for wrecking his father's plant; when the child is the victim。
A man heard me telling the story of Gussie and Bill Whackem; and he went out of my audience very indignant。 He said he was very glad his boy was not there to hear it。 But that good; deluded father now has his head bowed in shame over the career of his spoiled son。
I rarely tell of it on a platform that at the close of the lecture somebody does not take me aside and tell me a story just as sad from that community。
For years poor Harry Thaw was front…paged on the newspapers and gibbeted in the pulpits as the shocking example of youthful depravity。 He seems never to have had a fighting chance to become a man。 He seems to have been robbed of his birthright from the cradle。 Yet the father of this boy who has cost America millions in court and detention expenses was one of the greatest business generals of the Keystone state。 He could plat great coal empires and command armies of men; but he seems to have been pitifully ignorant of the fact that the barrel shakes。
It is the educated; the rich and the worldly wise who blunder most in the training of their children。 Poverty is a better trainer for the rest。
The menace of America lies not in the swollen fortunes; but in the shrunken souls who inherit them。
But Nature's eliminating process is kind to the race in the barrel shaking down the rattlers。 Somebody said it is only three generations from shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves。
How long this nation will endure depends upon how many Gussie boys this nation produces。 Steam heat is a fine thing; but do you notice how few of our strong men get their start with steam heat?
Children; Learn This Early
You boys and girls; God bless you! You live in good homes。 Father and mother love you and give you everything you need。 You get to thinking; 〃I won't have to turn my hand over。 Papa and mamma will take care of me; and when they are gone I'll inherit everything they have。 I'm fixed for life。〃
No; you are unfixed。 You are a candidate for trouble。 You are going to rattle。 Father and mother can be great and you can be a peanut。
You must solve your own problems and carry your own loads to have a strong mind and back。 Anybody who does for you regularly what you can do for yourselfanybody who gives you regularly what you can earn for yourself; is robbing you of your birthright。
Father and mother can put money in your pocket; ideas in your head and food in your stomach; but you cannot own it save as you digest itput it into your life。
I have read somewhere about a man who found a cocoon and put it in his house where he could watch it develop。 One day he saw a little insect struggling inside the cocoon。 It was trying to get out of the envelope。 It seemed in trouble and needed help。 He opened the envelope with a knife and set the struggling insect free。 But out came a monstrosity that soon died。 It had an over…developed body and under…developed wings。 He learned that helping the insect was killing it。 He took away from it the very thing it had to havethe struggle。 For it was this struggle of breaking its own way out of that envelope that was needed to reduce its body and develop its wings。
Not Packhorse Work
But remember there is little virtue in work unless it is getting us somewhere。 Just work that gets us three meals a day and a place to lie down to sleep; then another day of the same grind; then a year of it and years following until our machine is worn out and on the junkpile; means little。 〃One day nearer home〃 for such a worker means one day nearer the scrapheap。
Such a worker is like the packhorse who goes forward to keep ahead of the whip。 Such a worker is the horse we used to have hitched to the sorghum mill。 Round and round that horse went; seeing nothing; hearing nothing; his head down; without ambition enough to prick up his ears。 Such work deadens and stupefies。 The masses work about that way。 They regard work as a necessary evil。 They are rightsuch work is a necessary evil; and they make it such。 They follow their nose。 〃Dumb; driven cattle。〃
But getting a vision of life; and working to grow upward to it; that is the work that brings the joy and the greatness。
When we are growing and letting our faculties develop; we will love even the packhorse job; because it is our 〃meal ticket〃 that enables us to travel upward。
〃Helping〃 the Turkeys
One time I put some turkey eggs under the mother hen and waited day by day for them to hatch。 And sure enough; one day the eggs began to crack and the little turkeys began to stick their heads out of the shells。 Some of the little turkeys came out from the shells all right; but some of them stuck in the shells。
〃Shell out; little turkeys; shell out;〃 I urged; 〃for Thanksgiving is coming。 Shell out!〃
But they stuck to the shells。
〃Little turkeys; I'll have to help you。 I'll have to shell you by hand。〃 So I picked the shells off。 〃Little turkeys; you will never know how fortunate you are。 Ordinary turkeys do not have these advantages。 Ordinary turkeys do not get shelled by hand。〃
Did I help them? I killed them; or stunted them。 Not one of the turkeys was 〃right〃 that I helped。 They were runts。 One of them was a regular Harry Thaw turkey。 They had too many silk socks。 Too many 〃advantages。〃
Children; you must crack your own shells。 You must overcome your own obstacles to develop your own powers。
A rich boy can succeed; but he has a poorer chance than a poor boy。 The cards are against him。 He must succeed in spite of his 〃advantages。〃
I am pleading for you to get a great arm; a great mind; a great character; for the joy of having a larger life。 I am pleading with you to know the joy of overcoming and having the angels come and minister to you。
Happiness in Our Work
Children; I am pleading with you to find happiness。 All the world is seeking happiness; but so many are seeking it by rattling down instead of by shaking up。
The happiness is in going upin developing a greater arm; a greater mind; a greater character。
Happiness is the joy of overcoming。 It is the delight of an expanding consciousness。 It is the cry of the eagle mounting upward。 It is the proof that we are progressing。
We find happiness in our work; not outside of our work。 If we cannot find happiness in our work; we have the wrong job。 Find the work that fits your talents; and stop watching the clock and planning vacations。
Loving friends used to warn me against 〃breaking down。〃 They scared me into 〃taking care〃 of myself。 And I got to taking such good care of myself and watching for symptoms that I became a physical wreck。
I saved myself by getting busier。 I plunged into work I love。 I found my job in my work; not away from it; and the work refreshed me and rejuvenated me。 Now I do two men's work; and have grown from a skinny; fretful; nervous wreck into a hearty; happy man。 This has been a great surprise to my friends and a great disappointment to the undertaker。 I am an editor in the daytime and a lecturer at night。
I edit all day and take a vacation lecturing at night。 I lecture almost every day of the yearmaybe two or three times some daysand then take a vacation by editing and writing。 Thus every day is jam full of play and vacation and good times。 The year is one round of joy; and I ought to pay people for the privilege of speaking and writing to them instead of them paying me!
If I did not like my work; of course; I would be carrying a terrible burden and would speedily collapse。
You see; I have no time nowadays to break down。 I have no time to think and gr