第 12 节
作者:暖暖      更新:2021-02-24 22:59      字数:9322
  oal itself。 Here comes a very entertaining problem; the question of the value of habits。 Good habits save time and energy; tend to eliminate useless labor and make for peace and quiet。 But there is a large body of persons who come to value habits for themselves and; indeed; this is true to a certain extent of all of us。 Once an accustomed way of doing things is established it becomes not only a path of least resistance; but a sort of fixed point of view; and; if one may mix metaphors a trifle; a sort of trunk for the ego to twine itself around。 There is uneasiness in the thought of breaking up habits; an uneasiness that grows the more as we become older and is deepened into agony if the habit is tinged with our status in life; if it has become a sort of measure of our respectability。 Thus a good housekeeper falls into the habits of doing things which were originally a mark of her ability; which she holds as sacred and values above her health and energy。 There are people who fiercely resent a new way of doing things; they have woven their most minor habits into their ego feeling and thus make a personal issue of innovations。 These are the upholders of the established; they hate change as such; they are efficient but not progressive。 In its pathological form this type becomes the 〃health fiends〃 who never vary in their diet or in their clothing; who arise at a certain time; take their 〃plunge〃 regardless; take their exercise and their breakfasts alike as a health measure without real enjoyment; etc。; who grow weary if they stay up half an hour or so beyond their ordinary bedtime; they are the individuals who fall into health cults; become vegetarians; raw food exponents; etc。 Opposed to the group that falls into habits very readily is the group that finds it difficult to acquire habitual ways of working and living。 All of us seek change and variety; as well as stability。 Some cannot easily form habits because they are quickly bored by the habitual。 These restless folk are the failures or the great successes; according to their intelligence and good fortune。 There is a low…grade intelligence type; without purpose and energy; and there is a high…grade intelligence type; seeking the ideal; restless under imperfection and restraint; disdaining the commonplace and the habits that go with it。 Is their disdain of habit…forming and customs the result of their unconventional ways; or do their unconventional ways result because they cannot easily form habits? It is very probable that the true wanderer and Bohemian finds it difficult; at least in youth; to form habits; and that the pseudo…Bohemian is merely an imitation。 Habit is so intimately a part of all traits and abilities that we would be anticipating several chapters of this book did we go into all the habit types。 Social conditions; desire; fatigue; monotony; purpose; intelligence; inhibition; all enter into habit and habit formation。 Youth experiments with habit; old age clings to it。 Efficiency is the result of good habits but originality is the reward of some who discard habits。 A nation forms habits which seem to be part of its nature; until emigration to another land shows the falsity of this belief。 So with individuals: a man feels he must eat or drink so much; gratify his sex appetite so often; sleep so many hours; exercise this or that amount; seek his entertainment in this or that fashion;until something happens to make the habit impossible and he finds that what he thought a deeply rooted mode of living was a superficial routine。 Though good habits may lead to success they may also bar the way to the pleasures of experience; that is their danger。 A man who finds that he must do this or that in such a way had better beware; he is getting old; no matter what his age。'1' For we grow older as we lose mobility;in joints; muscles; skin and our ways of doing; feeling and thinking! It is a transitory stage of the final immobility of Death。 '1' Says the talkative Autocrat of the Breakfast Table: 〃There is one mark of age that strikes me more than any of the physical ones; I mean the formation of Habits。 An old man who shrinks into himself falls into ways that become as positive and as much beyond the reach of outside influences as if they were governed by clock work。〃
  We have not considered the pathological habits; such as alcoholism; excessive smoking and eating; perverse sex habits。 The latter; the perverse sex habits; will be studied when discussing the sex feelings and purposes in their entirety。 Alcoholism is not yet a dead issue in this country though those who are sincere in wishing their fellows well hope it soon will be。 It stands; however; as a sort of paradigm of bad habit… forming and presents a problem in treatment that is typical of such habits。 Not all persons have a liability to the alcoholic habit。 For most people lack of real desire or pleasure prevented alcoholism。 The majority of those who drank little or not at all were not in the least tempted by the drug。 〃Will power〃 rarely had anything to do with their abstinence and the complacency with which they held themselves up as an example to the drunken had all the flavor of Phariseeism。 To some the taste is not pleasing; to others the immediate effects are so terrifying as automatically to shut off excess。 Many people become dizzy or nauseated almost at once and even lose the power of locomotion or speech。 In many countries and during many centuries most of those who became alcoholic were such largely through the social setting given to alcohol。 Because of the psychological effects of this drug in removing restraint; inhibition and formality; in its various forms it became the symbol of good…fellowship; and because it has an apparent stimulation and heat…producing effect there grew up the notion that it aided hard labor and helped resist hardship。 As the symbol of good…fellowship it grew into a tradition of the most binding kind; so that no good time; no coming together was complete without it; and its power is celebrated in picturesque songs and picturesque sayings the world over。 Hospitality; tolerance; good humor; kindliness and the pleasant breaking down of the barriers between man and man; and also between man and woman; all these lured generation after generation into the alcoholic habit。 There are relatively normal types of the heavy drinker;the socially minded and the hard manual worker。 But there is a large group of those who find in alcohol a relief from the burden of their moods; who find in its real effect; the release from inhibitions; a reason for drinking beyond the reach of reason。 Do you feel that the endless monotony of your existence can no longer be borne;drink deep and you color your life to suit yourself。 Do disappointment and despair gnaw at your love of life so that nothing seems worth while;some bottled 〃essence of sunshine〃 will give new; fresh value to existence。 Are you a victim of strange; uncaused fluctuations of mood so that periodically you descend to a bottomless pit of melancholy; well; then; why suffer; when over the bar a man will furnish you a release from agony? And so men of certain types of temperament; or with unhappy experiences; form the alcoholic habit because it gives them surcease from pain; it deals out to them; temporarily; a new world with happier mood; lessened tension and greater success。 Seeking relief'1' from distressing thoughts or moods is perhaps one of the main causes of the narcotic habit。 The feeling of inferiority; one of the most painful of mental conditions; is responsible for the use not only of alcohol but also of other drugs; such as cocaine; heroin; morphine; etc。 One of the most typical cases of this I have known is of a young man of twenty…five; a tall fellow with a very unattractive face who had this feeling of inferiority almost to the point of agony; especially in the presence of young women; but also in any situation where he would be noticed。 He was fast becoming a hermit when he discovered that a few drinks completely removed this feeling。 From that time on he became a steady drinker; with now and then a short period when he would try to stop drinking; only to resume when he found himself obsessed again by the dreaded inferiority complex。 '1' This is the main theme of De Quincey's 〃Confessions of an Opium Eater。〃
  Similarly a shameful position; such as that of the prostitute or the chronic criminal; is 〃relieved〃 by alcohol and drugs; so that the majority of these types of unfortunates are either drunkards or 〃dopes。〃 Too often have reformers reversed the relationship; believing that alcohol caused prostitution and crime。 Of course that relationship exists; but more often; in my experience; the alcohol is used to keep up the 〃ego〃 feeling; without which few can bear life。 Curiously enough; one of the sex perversions; masturbation; has in a few cases a similar genesis。 I have known patients who; when under the influence of depression; or humiliated in some way or other; found a compensating pleasure in the act。 Here we come to a cardinal truth in the understanding of ourselves and our fellows and one we shall pursue in detail later;that face to face with mental pain; men seek relief or pleasure or both by alcohol; drugs; sensual pleasures of all ki