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  concerned how to expose and set out our own commodities; than how to
  increase our stock by acquiring new。  Silence; therefore; and modesty are
  very advantageous qualities in conversation。  One should; therefore;
  train up this boy to be sparing and an husband of his knowledge when he
  has acquired it; and to forbear taking exceptions at or reproving every
  idle saying or ridiculous story that is said or told in his presence; for
  it is a very unbecoming rudeness to carp at everything that is not
  agreeable to our own palate。  Let him be satisfied with correcting
  himself; and not seem to condemn everything in another he would not do
  himself; nor dispute it as against common customs。
  〃Licet sapere sine pompa; sine invidia。〃
  '〃Let us be wise without ostentation; without envy。〃
  Seneca; Ep。; 103。
  Let him avoid these vain and uncivil images of authority; this childish
  ambition of coveting to appear better bred and more accomplished; than he
  really will; by such carriage; discover himself to be。  And; as if
  opportunities of interrupting and reprehending were not to be omitted; to
  desire thence to derive the reputation of something more than ordinary。
  For as it becomes none but great poets to make use of the poetical
  licence; so it is intolerable for any but men of great and illustrious
  souls to assume privilege above the authority of custom:
  〃Si quid Socrates ant Aristippus contra morem et consuetudinem
  fecerunt; idem sibi ne arbitretur licere: magnis enim illi et
  divinis bonis hanc licentiam assequebantur。〃
  '〃If Socrates and Aristippus have committed any act against manners
  and custom; let him not think that he is allowed to do the same; for
  it was by great and divine benefits that they obtained this
  privilege。〃Cicero; De 0ffic。; i。 41。'
  Let him be instructed not to engage in discourse or dispute but with a
  champion worthy of him; and; even there; not to make use of all the
  little subtleties that may seem pat for his purpose; but only such
  arguments as may best serve him。  Let him be taught to be curious in the
  election and choice of his reasons; to abominate impertinence; and
  consequently; to affect brevity; but; above all; let him be lessoned to
  acquiesce and submit to truth so soon as ever he shall discover it;
  whether in his opponent's argument; or upon better consideration of his
  own; for he shall never be preferred to the chair for a mere clatter of
  words and syllogisms; and is no further engaged to any argument whatever;
  than as he shall in his own judgment approve it: nor yet is arguing a
  trade; where the liberty of recantation and getting off upon better
  thoughts; are to be sold for ready money:
  〃Neque; ut omnia; qux praescripta et imperata sint;
  defendat; necessitate ulla cogitur。〃
  '〃Neither is their any necessity upon him; that he should defend
  all things that are prescribed and enjoined him。〃
  Cicero; Acad。; ii。 3。'
  If his governor be of my humour; he will form his will to be a very good
  and loyal subject to his prince; very affectionate to his person; and
  very stout in his quarrel; but withal he will cool in him the desire of
  having any other tie to his service than public duty。  Besides several
  other inconveniences that are inconsistent with the liberty every honest
  man ought to have; a man's judgment; being bribed and prepossessed by
  these particular obligations; is either blinded and less free to exercise
  its function; or is blemished with ingratitude and indiscretion。  A man
  that is purely a courtier; can neither have power nor will to speak or
  think otherwise than favourably and well of a master; who; amongst so
  many millions of other subjects; has picked out him with his own hand to
  nourish and advance; this favour; and the profit flowing from it; must
  needs; and not without some show of reason; corrupt his freedom and
  dazzle him; and we commonly see these people speak in another kind of
  phrase than is ordinarily spoken by others of the same nation; though
  what they say in that courtly language is not much to be believed。
  Let his conscience and virtue be eminently manifest in his speaking; and
  have only reason for their guide。  Make him understand; that to
  acknowledge the error he shall discover in his own argument; though only
  found out by himself; is an effect of judgment and sincerity; which are
  the principal things he is to seek after; that obstinacy and contention
  are common qualities; most appearing in mean souls; that to revise and
  correct himself; to forsake an unjust argument in the height and heat of
  dispute; are rare; great; and philosophical qualities。
  Let him be advised; being in company; to have his eye and ear in every
  corner; for I find that the places of greatest honour are commonly seized
  upon by men that have least in them; and that the greatest fortunes are
  seldom accompanied with the ablest parts。  I have been present when;
  whilst they at the upper end of the chamber have been only commenting the
  beauty of the arras; or the flavour of the wine; many things that have
  been very finely said at the lower end of the table have been lost and
  thrown away。  Let him examine every man's talent; a peasant; a
  bricklayer; a passenger: one may learn something from every one of these
  in their several capacities; and something will be picked out of their
  discourse whereof some use may be made at one time or another; nay; even
  the folly and impertinence of others will contribute to his instruction。
  By observing the graces and manners of all he sees; he will create to
  himself an emulation of the good; and a contempt of the bad。
  Let an honest curiosity be suggested to his fancy of being inquisitive
  after everything; whatever there is singular and rare near the place
  where he is; let him go and see it; a fine house; a noble fountain; an
  eminent man; the place where a battle has been anciently fought; the
  passages of Caesar and Charlemagne:
  〃Qux tellus sit lenta gelu; quae putris ab aestu;
  Ventus in Italiam quis bene vela ferat。〃
  '〃What country is bound in frost; what land is friable with heat;
  what wind serves fairest for Italy。〃Propertius; iv。 3; 39。'
  Let him inquire into the manners; revenues; and alliances of princes;
  things in themselves very pleasant to learn; and very useful to know。
  In this conversing with men; I mean also; and principally; those who only
  live in the records of history; he shall; by reading those books;
  converse with the great and heroic souls of the best ages。  'Tis an idle
  and vain study to those who make it so by doing it after a negligent
  manner; but to those who do it with care and observation; 'tis a study of
  inestimable fruit and value; and the only study; as Plato reports; that
  the Lacedaemonians reserved to themselves。  What profit shall he not reap
  as to the business of men; by reading the Lives of Plutarch?  But;
  withal; let my governor remember to what end his instructions are
  principally directed; and that he do not so much imprint in his pupil's
  memory the date of the ruin of Carthage; as the manners of Hannibal and
  Scipio; nor so much where Marcellus died; as why it was unworthy of his
  duty that he died there。  Let him not teach him so much the narrative
  parts of history as to judge them; the reading of them; in my opinion;
  is a thing that of all others we apply ourselves unto with the most
  differing measure。  I have read a hundred things in Livy that another has
  not; or not taken notice of at least; and Plutarch has read a hundred
  more there than ever I could find; or than; peradventure; that author
  ever wrote; to some it is merely a grammar study; to others the very
  anatomy of philosophy; by which the most abstruse parts of our human
  nature penetrate。  There are in Plutarch many long discourses very worthy
  to be carefully read and observed; for he is; in my opinion; of all
  others the greatest master in that kind of writing; but there are a
  thousand others which he has only touched and glanced upon; where he only
  points with his finger to direct us which way we may go if we will; and
  contents himself sometimes with giving only one brisk hit in the nicest
  article of the question; whence we are to grope out the rest。  As; for
  example; where he says''In the Essay on False Shame。' that the
  inhabitants of Asia came to be vassals to one only; for not having been
  able to pronounce one syllable; which is No。  Which saying of his gave
  perhaps matter and occasion to La Boetie to write his 〃Voluntary
  Servitude。〃  Only to see him pick out a light action in a man's life; or
  a mere word that does not seem to amount even to that; is itself a whole
  discourse。  'Tis to our prejudice that men of understanding should so
  immoderately affect brevity; no doubt their reputation is the better by
  it; but in the meantime we are the worse。  Plutarch had rather we should
  applaud his judgment than commend his knowledge; and had rather leave us
  with an appetite to read more; than glutted with that we have already
  read。  He knew very well; that a man may say too much even upon the best
  subjects; and that Alexandridas