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打死也不说 更新:2021-02-20 14:22 字数:9322
their children; they would preserve their own health; and there would be such an interval between the birth of each child; that we should seldom see a house full of babes。 And did they pursue a plan of conduct; and not waste their time in following the fashionable vagaries of dress; the management of their household and children need not shut them out from literature; nor prevent their attaching themselves to a science; with that steady eye which strengthens the mind; or practising one of the fine arts that cultivate the taste。 But; visiting to display finery; card playing; and balls; not to mention the idle bustle of morning trifling; draw women from their duty; to render them insignificant; to render them pleasing; according to the present acceptation of the word; to every man; but their husband。 For a round of pleasures in which the affections are not exercised; cannot be said to improve the understanding; though it be erroneously called seeing the world; yet the heart is rendered cold and averse to duty; by such a senseless intercourse; which becomes necessary from habit; even when it has ceased to amuse。 But; till more equality be established in society; till ranks are confounded and women freed; we shall not see that dignified domestic happiness; the simple grandeur of which cannot be relished by ignorant or vitiated minds; nor will the important task of education ever be properly begun till the person of a woman is no longer preferred to her mind。 For it would be as wise to expect corn from tares; or figs from thistles; as that a foolish ignorant woman should be a good mother。 SECTION 13。6。 It is not necessary to inform the sagacious reader; now I enter on my concluding reflections; that the discussion of this subject merely consists in opening a few simple principles; and clearing away the rubbish which obscured them。 But; as all readers are not sagacious; I must be allowed to add some explanatory remarks to bring the subject home to reasonto that sluggish reason; which supinely takes opinions on trust; and obstinately supports them to spare itself the labour of thinking。 Moralists have unanimously agreed; that unless virtue be nursed by liberty; it will never attain due strengthand what they say of man I extend to mankind; insisting; that in all cases morals must be fixed on immutable principles; and that the being cannot be termed rational or virtuous; who obeys any authority but that of reason。 To render women truly useful members of society; I argue; that they should be led; by having their understandings cultivated on a large scale; to acquire a rational affection for their country; founded on knowledge; because it is obvious; that we are little interested about what we do not understand。 And to render this general knowledge of due importance; I have endeavoured to show that private duties are never properly fulfilled; unless the understanding enlarges the heart; and that public virtue is only an aggregate of private。 But; the distinctions established in society undermine both; by beating out the solid gold of virtue; till it becomes only the tinsel…covering of vice; for; whilst wealth renders a man more respectable than virtue; wealth will be sought before virtue; and; whilst women's persons are caressed; when a childish simper shows an absence of mindthe mind will lie fallow。 Yet; true voluptuousness must proceed from the mindfor what can equal the sensations produced by mutual affection; supported by mutual respect? What are the cold or feverish caresses of appetite; but sin embracing death; compared with the modest overflowings of a pure heart and exalted imagination? Yes; let me tell the libertine of fancy when he despises understanding in womanthat the mind; which he disregards; gives life to the enthusiastic affection from which rapture; short…lived as it is; alone can flow! And; that; without virtue; a sexual attachment must expire; like a tallow candle in the socket; creating intolerable disgust。 To prove this; I need only observe; that men who have wasted great part of their lives with women; and with whom they have sought for pleasure with eager thirst; entertain the meanest opinion of the sex。 Virtue; true refiner of joy! if foolish men were to fright thee from earth; in order to give loose to all their appetites without a checksome sensual wight of taste would scale the heavens to invite thee back; to give a zest to pleasure! That women at present are by ignorance rendered foolish or vicious; is; I think; not to be disputed; and; that the most salutary effects tending to improve mankind; might be expected from a REVOLUTION in female manners; appears at least; with a face of probability; to rise out of the observation。 For as marriage has been termed the parent of those endearing charities; which draw man from the brutal herd; the corrupting intercourse that wealth; idleness; and folly produce between the sexes; is more universally injurious to morality; than all the other vices of mankind collectively considered。 To adulterous lust the most sacred duties are sacrificed; because; before marriage; men; by a promiscuous intimacy with women; learned to consider love as a selfish gratificationlearned to separate it not only from esteem; but from the affection merely built on habit; which mixes a little humanity with it。 Justice and friendship are also set at defiance; and that purity of taste is vitiated; which would naturally lead a man to relish an artless display of affection; rather than affected airs。 But that noble simplicity of affection; which dares to appear unadorned; has few attractions for the libertine; though it be the charm; which; by cementing the matrimonial tie; secures to the pledges of a warmer passion the necessary parental attention; for children will never be properly educated till friendship subsists between parents。 Virtue flies from a house divided against itselfand a whole legion of devils take up their residence there。 The affection of husbands and wives cannot be pure when they have so few sentiments in common; and when so little confidence is established at home; as must be the case when their pursuits are so different。 That intimacy from which tenderness should flow; will not; cannot subsist between the vicious。 Contending; therefore; that the sexual distinction; which men have so warmly insisted upon; is arbitrary; I have dwelt on an observation; that several sensible men; with whom I have conversed on the subject; allowed to be well founded; and it is simply this; that the little chastity to be found amongst men; and consequent disregard of modesty; tend to degrade both sexes; and further; that the modesty of women; characterized as such; will often be only the artful veil of wantonness; instead of being the natural reflection of purity; till modesty be universally respected。 From the tyranny of man; I firmly believe; the greater number of female follies proceed; and the cunning; which I allow; makes at present a part of their character; I likewise have repeatedly endeavoured to prove; is produced by oppression。 Were not dissenters; for instance; a class of people; with strict truth characterized as cunning? And may I not lay some stress on this fact to prove; that when any power but reason curbs the free spirit of man; dissimulation is practised; and the various shifts of art are naturally called forth? Great attention to decorum; which was carried to a degree of scrupulosity; and all that puerile bustle about trifles and consequential solemnity; which Butler's caricature of a dissenter brings before the imagination; shaped their persons as well as their minds in the mould of prim littleness。 I speak collectively; for I know how many ornaments to human nature have been enrolled amongst sectaries; yet; I assert; that the same narrow prejudice for their sect; which women have for their families; prevailed in the dissenting part of the community; however worthy in other respects; and also that the same timid prudence; or headstrong efforts; often disgraced the exertions of both。 Oppression thus formed many of the features of their character perfectly to coincide with that of the oppressed half of mankind; for is it not notorious; that dissenters were like women; fond of deliberating together; and asking advice of each other; till by a complication of little contrivances; some little end was brought about? A similar attention to preserve their reputation was conspicuous in the dissenting and female world; and was produced by a similar cause。 Asserting the rights which women in common with men ought to contend for; I have not attempted to extenuate their faults; but to prove them to be the natural consequence of their education and station in society。 If so; it is reasonable to suppose; that they will change their character; and correct their vices and follies; when they are allowed to be free in a physical; moral; and civil sense。 Let woman share the rights; and she will emulate the virtues of man; for she must grow more perfect when emancipated; or justify the authority that chains such a weak being to her duty。 If the latter; it will be expedient to open a fresh trade with Russia for whips; a present which a father should always make to his son…in…law on his wed