第 20 节
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打死也不说 更新:2021-02-20 14:21 字数:9322
harm be polished to intoxicate the senses; but; if they are moral beings; let them have a chance to become intelligent; and let love to man be only a part of that glowing flame of universal love; which; after encircling humanity; mounts in grateful incense to God。 To fulfil domestic duties much resolution is necessary; and a serious kind of perseverance that requires a more firm support than emotions; however lively and true to nature。 To give an example of order; the soul of virtue; some austerity of behaviour must be adopted; scarcely to be expected from a being who; from its infancy; has been made the weathercock of its own sensations。 Whoever rationally means to be useful; must have a plan of conduct; and; in the discharge of the simplest duty; we are often obliged to act contrary to the present impulse of tenderness or compassion。 Severity is frequently the most certain; as well as the most sublime proof of affection; and the want of this power over the feelings; and of that lofty; dignified affection; which makes a person prefer the future good of the beloved object to a present gratification; is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their children; and has made it questionable; whether negligence or indulgence is most hurtful: but I am inclined to think; that the latter has done most harm。 Mankind seem to agree; that children should be left under the management of women during their childhood。 Now; from all the observation that I have been able to make; women of sensibility are the most unfit for this task; because they will infallibly; carried away by their feelings; spoil a child's temper。 The management of the temper; the first and most important branch of education; requires the sober steady eye of reason; a plan of conduct equally distant from tyranny and indulgence; yet these are the extremes that people of sensibility alternately fall into; always shooting beyond the mark。 I have followed this train of reasoning much further; till I have concluded; that a person of genius is the most improper person to be employed in education; public or private。 Minds of this rare species see things too much in masses; and seldom; if ever; have a good temper。 That habitual cheerfulness; termed good humour; is; perhaps; as seldom united with great mental powers; as with strong feelings。 And those people who follow; with interest and admiration; the flights of genius; or; with cooler approbation suck in the instruction; which has been elaborately prepared for them by the profound thinker; ought not to be disgusted; if they find the former choleric; and the latter morose; because liveliness of fancy; and a tenacious comprehension of mind; are scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which leads a man; at least to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others; instead of roughly confronting them。 But; treating of education or manners; minds of a superior class are not to be considered; they may be left to chance; it is the multitude; with moderate abilities; who call for instruction; and catch the colour of the atmosphere they breathe。 This respectable concourse; I contend; men and women; should not have their sensations heightened in the hot…bed of luxurious indolence; at the expence of their understanding; for; unless there be a ballast of understanding; they will never become either virtuous or free: an aristocracy; founded on property; or sterling talents; will ever sweep before it; the alternately timid and ferocious slaves of feeling。 Numberless are the arguments; to take another view of the subject; brought forward with a show of reason; because supposed to be deduced from nature; that men have used morally and physically to degrade the sex。 I must notice a few。 The female understanding has often been spoken of with contempt; as arriving sooner at maturity than the male。 I shall not answer this argument by alluding to the early proofs of reason; as well as genius; in Cowley; Milton; and Pope; (Many other names might be added。) but only appeal to experience to decide whether young men; who are early introduced into company (and examples now abound) do not acquire the same precocity。 So notorious is this fact; that the bare mentioning of it must bring before people; who at all mix in the world; the idea of a number of swaggering apes of men whose understandings are narrowed by being brought into the society of men when they ought to have been spinning a top or twirling a hoop。 It has also been asserted; by some naturalists; that men do not attain their full growth and strength till thirty; but that women arrive at maturity by twenty。 I apprehend that they reason on false ground; led astray by the male prejudice; which deems beauty the perfection of womanmere beauty of features and complexion; the vulgar acceptation of the world; whilst male beauty is allowed to have some connexion with the mind。 Strength of body; and that character of countenance; which the French term a physionomie; women do not acquire before thirty; any more than men。 The little artless tricks of children; it is true; are particularly pleasing and attractive; yet; when the pretty freshness of youth is worn off; these artless graces become studied airs; and disgust every person of taste。 In the countenance of girls we only look for vivacity and bashful modesty; but; the springtide of life over; we look for soberer sense in the face; and for traces of passion; instead of the dimples of animal spirits; expecting to see individuality of character; the only fastener of the affections。 We then wish to converse; not to fondle; to give scope to our imaginations; as well as to the sensations of our hearts。 At twenty the beauty of both sexes is equal; but the libertinism of man leads him to make the distinction; and superannuated coquettes are commonly of the same opinion; for when they can no longer inspire love; they pay for the vigour and vivacity of youth。 The French who admit more of mind into their notions of beauty; give the preference to women of thirty。 I mean to say; that they allow women to be in their most perfect state; when vivacity gives place to reason; and to that majestic seriousness of character; which marks maturity; or; the resting point。 In youth; till twenty the body shoots out; till thirty the solids are attaining a degree of density; and the flexible muscles; growing daily more rigid; give character to the countenance; that is; they trace the operations of the mind with the iron pen of fate; and tell us not only what powers are within; but how they have been employed。 It is proper to observe; that animals who arrive slowly at maturity; are the longest lived; and of the noblest species。 Men cannot; however; claim any natural superiority from the grandeur of longevity; for in this respect nature has not distinguished the male。 Polygamy is another physical degradation; and a plausible argument for a custom; that blasts every domestic virtue; is drawn from the well…attested fact; that in the countries where it is established; more females are born than males。 This appears to be an indication of nature; and to nature apparently reasonable speculations must yield。 A further conclusion obviously presents itself; if polygamy be necessary; woman must be inferior to man; and made for him。 With respect to the formation of the foetus in the womb; we are very ignorant; but it appears to me probable; that an accidental physical cause may account for this phenomenon; and prove it not to be a law of nature。 I have met with some pertinent observations on the subject in Forster's Account of the Isles of the South Sea; that will explain my meaning。 After observing that of the two sexes amongst animals; the most vigorous and hottest constitution always prevails; and produces its kind; he adds;〃If this be applied to the inhabitants of Africa; it is evident that the men there; accustomed to polygamy; are enervated by the use of so many women; and therefore less vigorous; the women on the contrary; are of a hotter constitution; not only on account of their more irritable nerves; more sensitive organization; and more lively fancy; but likewise because they are deprived in their matrimony of that share of physical love which in a monogamous condition; would all be theirs; and thus for the above reasons; the generality of children are born females。〃 〃In the greater part of Europe it has been proved by the most accurate lists of mortality; that the proportion of men to women is nearly equal; or; if any difference takes place; the males born are more numerous; in the proportion of 105 to 100。〃 The necessity of polygamy; therefore; does not appear; yet when a man seduces a woman; it should I think; be termed a LEFT…HANDED marriage; and the man should be LEGALLY obliged to maintain the woman and her children; unless adultery; a natural divorcement; abrogated the law。 And this law should remain in force as long as the weakness of women caused the word seduction to be used as an excuse for their frailty and want of principle; nay; while they depend on man for a subsistence; instead of earning it by the exercise of their own hands or heads。 But these women should not in the full meaning of the relationship; be termed wives; or the very purpose of marria