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打死也不说 更新:2021-02-20 14:21 字数:9322
to give man a natural superiority over woman; and this is the only solid basis on which the superiority of the sex can be built。 But I still insist; that not only the virtue; but the KNOWLEDGE of the two sexes should be the same in nature; if not in degree; and that women; considered not only as moral; but rational creatures; ought to endeavour to acquire human virtues (or perfections) by the SAME means as men; instead of being educated like a fanciful kind of HALF being; one of Rousseau's wild chimeras。 But; if strength of body be; with some show of reason; the boast of men; why are women so infatuated as to be proud of a defect? Rousseau has furnished them with a plausible excuse; which could only have occurred to a man; whose imagination had been allowed to run wild; and refine on the impressions made by exquisite senses; that they might; forsooth have a pretext for yielding to a natural appetite without violating a romantic species of modesty; which gratifies the pride and libertinism of man。 Women deluded by these sentiments; sometimes boast of their weakness; cunningly obtaining power by playing on the WEAKNESS of men; and they may well glory in their illicit sway; for; like Turkish bashaws; they have more real power than their masters: but virtue is sacrificed to temporary gratifications; and the respectability of life to the triumph of an hour。 Women; as well as despots; have now; perhaps; more power than they would have; if the world; divided and subdivided into kingdoms and families; was governed by laws deduced from the exercise of reason; but in obtaining it; to carry on the comparison; their character is degraded; and licentiousness spread through the whole aggregate of society。 The many become pedestal to the few。 I; therefore will venture to assert; that till women are more rationally educated; the progress of human virtue and improvement in knowledge must receive continual checks。 And if it be granted; that woman was not created merely to gratify the appetite of man; nor to be the upper servant; who provides his meals and takes care of his linen; it must follow; that the first care of those mothers or fathers; who really attend to the education of females; should be; if not to strengthen the body; at least; not to destroy the constitution by mistaken notions of beauty and female excellence; nor should girls ever be allowed to imbibe the pernicious notion that a defect can; by any chemical process of reasoning become an excellence。 In this respect; I am happy to find; that the author of one of the most instructive books; that our country has produced for children; coincides with me in opinion; I shall quote his pertinent remarks to give the force of his respectable authority to reason。* (*Footnote。 A respectable old man gives the following sensible account of the method he pursued when educating his daughter。 〃I endeavoured to give both to her mind and body a degree of vigour; which is seldom found in the female sex。 As soon as she was sufficiently advanced in strength to be capable of the lighter labours of husbandry and gardening; I employed her as my constant companion。 Selene; for that was her name; soon acquired a dexterity in all these rustic employments which I considered with equal pleasure and admiration。 If women are in general feeble both in body and mind; it arises less from nature than from education。 We encourage a vicious indolence and inactivity; which we falsely call delicacy; instead of hardening their minds by the severer principles of reason and philosophy; we breed them to useless arts; which terminate in vanity and sensuality。 In most of the countries which I had visited; they are taught nothing of an higher nature than a few modulations of the voice; or useless postures of the body; their time is consumed in sloth or trifles; and trifles become the only pursuits capable of interesting them。 We seem to forget; that it is upon the qualities of the female sex; that our own domestic comforts and the education of our children must depend。 And what are the comforts or the education which a race of beings corrupted from their infancy; and unacquainted with all the duties of life; are fitted to bestow? To touch a musical instrument with useless skill; to exhibit their natural or affected graces; to the eyes of indolent and debauched young men; who dissipate their husbands' patrimony in riotous and unnecessary expenses: these are the only arts cultivated by women in most of the polished nations I had seen。 And the consequences are uniformly such as may be expected to proceed from such polluted sources; private misery; and public servitude。 〃But; Selene's education was regulated by different views; and conducted upon severer principles; if that can be called severity which opens the mind to a sense of moral and religious duties; and most effectually arms it against the inevitable evils of life。〃Mr。 Day's 〃Sandford and Merton;〃 Volume 3。) But should it be proved that woman is naturally weaker than man; from whence does it follow that it is natural for her to labour to become still weaker than nature intended her to be? Arguments of this cast are an insult to common sense; and savour of passion。 The DIVINE RIGHT of husbands; like the divine right of kings; may; it is to be hoped; in this enlightened age; be contested without danger; and though conviction may not silence many boisterous disputants; yet; when any prevailing prejudice is attacked; the wise will consider; and leave the narrow…minded to rail with thoughtless vehemence at innovation。 The mother; who wishes to give true dignity of character to her daughter; must; regardless of the sneers of ignorance; proceed on a plan diametrically opposite to that which Rousseau has recommended with all the deluding charms of eloquence and philosophical sophistry: for his eloquence renders absurdities plausible; and his dogmatic conclusions puzzle; without convincing those who have not ability to refute them。 Throughout the whole animal kingdom every young creature requires almost continual exercise; and the infancy of children; conformable to this intimation; should be passed in harmless gambols; that exercise the feet and hands; without requiring very minute direction from the head; or the constant attention of a nurse。 In fact; the care necessary for self…preservation is the first natural exercise of the understanding; as little inventions to amuse the present moment unfold the imagination。 But these wise designs of nature are counteracted by mistaken fondness or blind zeal。 The child is not left a moment to its own direction; particularly a girl; and thus rendered dependentdependence is called natural。 To preserve personal beauty; woman's glory! the limbs and faculties are cramped with worse than Chinese bands; and the sedentary life which they are condemned to live; whilst boys frolic in the open air; weakens the muscles and relaxes the nerves。 As for Rousseau's remarks; which have since been echoed by several writers; that they have naturally; that is from their birth; independent of education; a fondness for dolls; dressing; and talking; they are so puerile as not to merit a serious refutation。 That a girl; condemned to sit for hours together listening to the idle chat of weak nurses or to attend at her mother's toilet; will endeavour to join the conversation; is; indeed very natural; and that she will imitate her mother or aunts; and amuse herself by adorning her lifeless doll; as they do in dressing her; poor innocent babe! is undoubtedly a most natural consequence。 For men of the greatest abilities have seldom had sufficient strength to rise above the surrounding atmosphere; and; if the page of genius has always been blurred by the prejudices of the age; some allowance should be made for a sex; who; like kings; always see things through a false medium。 In this manner may the fondness for dress; conspicuous in women; be easily accounted for; without supposing it the result of a desire to please the sex on which they are dependent。 The absurdity; in short; of supposing that a girl is naturally a coquette; and that a desire connected with the impulse of nature to propagate the species; should appear even before an improper education has; by heating the imagination; called it forth prematurely; is so unphilosophical; that such a sagacious observer as Rousseau would not have adopted it; if he had not been accustomed to make reason give way to his desire of singularity; and truth to a favourite paradox。 Yet thus to give a sex to mind was not very consistent with the principles of a man who argued so warmly; and so well; for the immortality of the soul。 But what a weak barrier is truth when it stands in the way of an hypothesis! Rousseau respectedalmost adored virtueand yet allowed himself to love with sensual fondness。 His imagination constantly prepared inflammable fuel for his inflammable senses; but; in order to reconcile his respect for self…denial; fortitude and those heroic virtues; which a mind like his could not coolly admire; he labours to invert the law of nature; and broaches a doctrine pregnant with mischief; and derogatory to the character of supreme wisdom。 His ridiculous stories; which tend to prove that girls are NATURA