第 10 节
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  superiors of the foolish souls who mock them … better; even
  misguided efforts; than the ignoble stagnant quagmire of slouch
  into which we seem to be slowly descending。
  CHAPTER 9 … Social Suggestion
  THE question of how far we are unconsciously influenced by people
  and surroundings; in our likes and dislikes; our opinions; and even
  in our pleasures and intimate tastes; is a delicate and interesting
  one; for the line between success and failure in the world; as on
  the stage or in most of the professions; is so narrow and depends
  so often on what humor one's 〃public〃 happen to be in at a
  particular moment; that the subject is worthy of consideration。
  Has it never happened to you; for instance; to dine with friends
  and go afterwards in a jolly humor to the play which proved so
  delightful that you insist on taking your family immediately to see
  it; when to your astonishment you discover that it is neither
  clever nor amusing; on the contrary rather dull。  Your family look
  at you in amazement and wonder what you had seen to admire in such
  an asinine performance。  There was a case of suggestion!  You had
  been influenced by your friends and had shared their opinions。  The
  same thing occurs on a higher scale when one is raised out of one's
  self by association with gifted and original people; a communion
  with more cultivated natures which causes you to discover and
  appreciate a thousand hidden beauties in literature; art or music
  that left to yourself; you would have failed to notice。  Under
  these circumstances you will often be astonished at the point and
  piquancy of your own conversation。  This is but too true of a
  number of subjects。
  We fondly believe our opinions and convictions to be original; and
  with innocent conceit; imagine that we have formed them for
  ourselves。  The illusion of being unlike other people is a common
  vanity。  Beware of the man who asserts such a claim。  He is sure to
  be a bore and will serve up to you; as his own; a muddle of ideas
  and opinions which he has absorbed like a sponge from his
  surroundings。
  No place is more propitious for studying this curious phenomenon;
  than behind the scenes of a theatre; the last few nights before a
  first performance。  The whole company is keyed up to a point of
  mutual admiration that they are far from feeling generally。  〃The
  piece is charming and sure to be a success。〃  The author and the
  interpreters of his thoughts are in complete communion。  The first
  night comes。  The piece is a failure!  Drop into the greenroom then
  and you will find an astonishing change has taken place。  The Star
  will take you into a corner and assert that; she 〃always knew the
  thing could not go; it was too imbecile; with such a company; it
  was folly to expect anything else。〃  The author will abuse the Star
  and the management。  The whole troupe is frankly disconcerted; like
  people aroused out of a hypnotic sleep; wondering what they had
  seen in the play to admire。
  In the social world we are even more inconsistent; accepting with
  tameness the most astonishing theories and opinions。  Whole circles
  will go on assuring each other how clever Miss So…and…So is; or;
  how beautiful they think someone else。  Not because these good
  people are any cleverer; or more attractive than their neighbors;
  but simply because it is in the air to have these opinions about
  them。  To such an extent does this hold good; that certain persons
  are privileged to be vulgar and rude; to say impertinent things and
  make remarks that would ostracize a less fortunate individual from
  the polite world for ever; society will only smilingly shrug its
  shoulders and say: 〃It is only Mr。 So…and…So's way。〃  It is useless
  to assert that in cases like these; people are in possession of
  their normal senses。  They are under influences of which they are
  perfectly unconscious。
  Have you ever seen a piece guyed?  Few sadder sights exist; the
  human being rarely getting nearer the brute than when engaged in
  this amusement。  Nothing the actor or actress can do will satisfy
  the public。  Men who under ordinary circumstances would be
  incapable of insulting a woman; will whistle and stamp and laugh;
  at an unfortunate girl who is doing her utmost to amuse them。  A
  terrible example of this was given two winters ago at one of our
  concert halls; when a family of Western singers were subjected to
  absolute ill…treatment at the hands of the public。  The young girls
  were perfectly sincere; in their rude way; but this did not prevent
  men from offering them every insult malice could devise; and making
  them a target for every missile at hand。  So little does the public
  think for itself in cases like this; that at the opening of the
  performance had some well…known person given the signal for
  applause; the whole audience would; in all probability; have been
  delighted and made the wretched sisters a success。
  In my youth it was the fashion to affect admiration for the Italian
  school of painting and especially for the great masters of the
  Renaissance。  Whole families of perfectly inartistic English and
  Americans might then he heard conscientiously admiring the ceiling
  of the Sistine Chapel or Leonardo's Last Supper (Botticelli had not
  been invented then) in the choicest guide…book language。
  When one considers the infinite knowledge of technique required to
  understand the difficulties overcome by the giants of the
  Renaissance and to appreciate the intrinsic qualities of their
  creations; one asks one's self in wonder what our parents admired
  in those paintings; and what tempted them to bring home and adorn
  their houses with such dreadful copies of their favorites。  For if
  they appreciated the originals they never would have bought the
  copies; and if the copies pleased them; they must have been
  incapable of enjoying the originals。  Yet all these people thought
  themselves perfectly sincere。  To…day you will see the same thing
  going on before the paintings of Claude Monet and Besnard; the same
  admiration expressed by people who; you feel perfectly sure; do not
  realize why these works of art are superior and can no more explain
  to you why they think as they do than the sheep that follow each
  other through a hole in a wall; can give a reason for their
  actions。
  Dress and fashion in clothes are subjects above all others; where
  the ineptitude of the human mind is most evident。  Can it be
  explained in any other way; why the fashions of yesterday always
  appear so hideous to us; … almost grotesque?  Take up an old album
  of photographs and glance over the faded contents。  Was there ever
  anything so absurd?  Look at the top hats men wore; and at the
  skirts of the women!
  The mother of a family said to me the other day: 〃When I recall the
  way in which girls were dressed in my youth; I wonder how any of us
  ever got a husband。〃
  Study a photograph of the Empress Eugenie; that supreme arbiter of
  elegance and grace。  Oh! those bunchy hooped skirts!  That awful
  India shawl pinned off the shoulders; and the bonnet perched on a
  roll of hair in the nape of the neck!  What were people thinking of
  at that time?  Were they lunatics to deform in this way the
  beautiful lines of the human body which it should be the first
  object of toilet to enhance; or were they only lacking in the
  artistic sense?  Nothing of the kind。  And what is more; they were
  convinced that the real secret of beauty in dress had been
  discovered by them; that past fashions were absurd; and that the
  future could not improve on their creations。  The sculptors and
  painters of that day (men of as great talent as any now living);
  were enthusiastic in reproducing those monstrosities in marble or
  on canvas; and authors raved about the ideal grace with which a
  certain beauty draped her shawl。
  Another marked manner in which we are influenced by circumambient
  suggestion; is in the transient furore certain games and pastimes
  create。  We see intelligent people so given over to this influence
  as barely to allow themselves time to eat and sleep; begrudging the
  hours thus stolen from their favorite amusement。
  Ten years ago; tennis occupied every moment of our young people's
  time; now golf has transplanted tennis in public favor; which does
  not prove; however; that the latter is the better game; but simply
  that compelled by the accumulated force of other people's opinions;
  youths and maidens; old duffers and mature spinsters are willing to
  pass many hours daily in all kinds of weather; solemnly following
  an indian…rubber ball across ten…acre lots。
  If you suggest to people who are laboring under the illusion they
  are amusing themselves that the game; absorbing so much of their
  attention; is not as exciting as tennis nor as clever in
  combinations as croque