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nowhere did the sunshine of her love seem so bright as when
lighting up the couch of her invalid husband。
Nor was he unconscious of her worth。 In one of his letters to
her; when absent from his side; Hood said: 〃I never was anything;
Dearest; till I knew you; and I have been a better; happier; and
more prosperous man ever since。 Lay by that truth in lavender;
Sweetest; and remind me of it when I fail。 I am writing warmly
and fondly; but not without good cause。 First; your own
affectionate letter; lately received; next; the remembrance of our
dear children; pledgeswhat darling ones!of our old familiar
love; then; a delicious impulse to pour out the overflowings of my
heart into yours; and last; not least; the knowledge that your
dear eyes will read what my hand is now writing。 Perhaps there is
an afterthought that; whatever may befall me; the wife of my bosom
will have the acknowledgment of her tenderness; worth; excellence
all that is wifely or womanly; from my pen。〃 In another letter;
also written to his wife during a brief absence; there is a
natural touch; showing his deep affection for her: 〃I went and
retraced our walk in the park; and sat down on the same seat; and
felt happier and better。〃
But not only was Mrs。 Hood a consoler; she was also a helper of
her husband in his special work。 He had such confidence in her
judgment; that he read; and re…read; and corrected with her
assistance all that he wrote。 Many of his pieces were first
dedicated to her; and her ready memory often supplied him with
the necessary references and quotations。 Thus; in the roll
of noble wives of men of genius; Mrs。 Hood will always be
entitled to take a foremost place。
Not less effective as a literary helper was Lady Napier; the wife
of Sir William Napier; historian of the Peninsular War。 She
encouraged him to undertake the work; and without her help he
would have experienced great difficulty in completing it。 She
translated and epitomized the immense mass of original documents;
many of them in cipher; on which it was in a great measure
founded。 When the Duke of Wellington was told of the art and
industry she had displayed in deciphering King Joseph's portfolio;
and the immense mass of correspondence taken at Vittoria; he at
first would hardly believe it; adding〃I would have given
20;000L。 to any person who could have done this for me in the
Peninsula。〃 Sir William Napier's handwriting being almost
illegible; Lady Napier made out his rough interlined manuscript;
which he himself could scarcely read; and wrote out a full fair
copy for the printer; and all this vast labour she undertook and
accomplished; according to the testimony of her husband; without
having for a moment neglected the care and education of a large
family。 When Sir William lay on his deathbed; Lady Napier was at
the same time dangerously ill; but she was wheeled into his room
on a sofa; and the two took their silent farewell of each other。
The husband died first; in a few weeks the wife followed him; and
they sleep side by side in the same grave。
Many other similar truehearted wives rise up in the memory; to
recite whose praises would more than fill up our remaining space
such as Flaxman's wife; Ann Denham; who cheered and encouraged her
husband through life in the prosecution of his art; accompanying
him to Rome; sharing in his labours and anxieties; and finally in
his triumphs; and to whom Flaxman; in the fortieth year of their
married life; dedicated his beautiful designs illustrative of
Faith; Hope; and Charity; in token of his deep and undimmed
affection;such as Katherine Boutcher; 〃dark…eyed Kate;〃 the
wife of William Blake; who believed her husband to be the first
genius on earth; worked off the impressions of his plates and
coloured them beautifully with her own hand; bore with him in all
his erratic ways; sympathised with him in his sorrows and joys for
forty…five years; and comforted him until his dying hourhis
last sketch; made in his seventy…first year; being a likeness of
himself; before making which; seeing his wife crying by his side;
he said; 〃Stay; Kate! just keep as you are; I will draw your
portrait; for you have ever been an angel to me;〃such again as
Lady Franklin; the true and noble woman; who never rested in her
endeavours to penetrate the secret of the Polar Sea and prosecute
the search for her long…lost husbandundaunted by failure; and
persevering in her determination with a devotion and singleness of
purpose altogether unparalleled;or such again as the wife of
Zimmermann; whose intense melancholy she strove in vain to
assuage; sympathizing with him; listening to him; and endeavouring
to understand himand to whom; when on her deathbed; about to
leave him for ever; she addressed the touching words; 〃My poor
Zimmermann! who will now understand thee?〃
Wives have actively helped their husbands in other ways。 Before
Weinsberg surrendered to its besiegers; the women of the place
asked permission of the captors to remove their valuables。 The
permission was granted; and shortly after; the women were seen
issuing from the gates carrying their husbands on their shoulders。
Lord Nithsdale owed his escape from prison to the address of his
wife; who changed garments with him; sending him forth in her
stead; and herself remaining prisoner;an example which was
successfully repeated by Madame de Lavalette。
But the most remarkable instance of the release of a husband
through the devotion of a wife; was that of the celebrated
Grotius。 He had lain for nearly twenty months in the strong
fortress of Loevestein; near Gorcum; having been condemned by the
government of the United Provinces to perpetual imprisonment。 His
wife; having been allowed to share his cell; greatly relieved his
solitude。 She was permitted to go into the town twice a week; and
bring her husband books; of which he required a large number to
enable him to prosecute his studies。 At length a large chest was
required to hold them。 This the sentries at first examined with
great strictness; but; finding that it only contained books
(amongst others Arminian books) and linen; they at length gave up
the search; and it was allowed to pass out and in as a matter of
course。 This led Grotius' wife to conceive the idea of releasing
him; and she persuaded him one day to deposit himself in the chest
instead of the outgoing books。 When the two soldiers appointed to
remove it took it up; they felt it to be considerably heavier than
usual; and one of them asked; jestingly; 〃Have we got the Arminian
himself here?〃 to which the ready…witted wife replied; 〃Yes;
perhaps some Arminian books。〃 The chest reached Gorcum in safety;
the captive was released; and Grotius escaped across the frontier
into Brabant; and afterwards into France; where he was rejoined
by his wife。
Trial and suffering are the tests of married life。 They bring out
the real character; and often tend to produce the closest union。
They may even be the spring of the purest happiness。
Uninterrupted joy; like uninterrupted success; is not good for
either man or woman。 When Heine's wife died; he began to reflect
upon the loss he had sustained。 They had both known poverty; and
struggled through it hand…in…hand; and it was his greatest sorrow
that she was taken from him at the moment when fortune was
beginning to smile upon him; but too late for her to share in his
prosperity。 〃Alas I〃 said he; 〃amongst my griefs must I reckon
even her lovethe strongest; truest; that ever inspired the
heart of womanwhich made me the happiest of mortals; and yet
was to me a fountain of a thousand distresses; inquietudes; and
cares? To entire cheerfulness; perhaps; she never attained; but
for what unspeakable sweetness; what exalted; enrapturing joys; is
not love indebted to sorrow! Amidst growing anxieties; with the
torture of anguish in my heart; I have been made; even by the loss
which caused me this anguish and these anxieties; inexpressibly
happy! When tears flowed over our cheeks; did not a nameless;
seldom…felt delight stream through my breast; oppressed equally
by joy and sorrow!〃
There is a degree of sentiment in German love which seems strange
to English readers;such as we find depicted in the lives of
Novalis; Jung Stilling; Fichte; Jean Paul; and others that might
be named。 The German betrothal is a ceremony of almost equal
importance to the marriage itself; and in that state the
sentiments are allowed free play; whilst English lovers are
restrained; shy; and as if ashamed of their feelings。 Take; for
instance; the case of Herder; whom his future wife first saw in
the pulpit。 〃I heard;〃 she says; 〃the voice of an angel; and
soul's words such as I had never heard before。 In the afternoon I
saw him; and stammered out my thanks to him; from this time forth
our souls were one。〃 They were betrothed long befo