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manner in which he assisted a supposed lady in crossing Fleet
Street。 He gave her his arm; and led her across; not observing
that she was in liquor at the time。 But the spirit of the act was
not the less kind on that account。 On the other hand; the conduct
of the bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit
employment; and who; regarding his athletic but uncouth person;
told him he had better 〃go buy a porter's knot and carry trunks;〃
in howsoever bland tones the advice might have been communicated;
was simply brutal。
While captiousness of manner; and the habit of disputing and
contradicting everything said; is chilling and repulsive; the
opposite habit of assenting to; and sympathising with; every
statement made; or emotion expressed; is almost equally
disagreeable。 It is unmanly; and is felt to be dishonest。 〃It may
seem difficult;〃 says Richard Sharp; 〃to steer always between
bluntness and plain…dealing; between giving merited praise and
lavishing indiscriminate flattery; but it is very easygood…
humour; kindheartedness; and perfect simplicity; being all that
are requisite to do what is right in the right way。〃 (3)
At the same time; many are unpolitenot because they mean to be
so; but because they are awkward; and perhaps know no better。
Thus; when Gibbon had published the second and third volumes of
his 'Decline and Fall;' the Duke of Cumberland met him one day;
and accosted him with; 〃How do you do; Mr。 Gibbon? I see you
are always AT IT in the old waySCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE; SCRIBBLE!〃
The Duke probably intended to pay the author a compliment;
but did not know how better to do it; than in this blunt and
apparently rude way。
Again; many persons are thought to be stiff; reserved; and proud;
when they are only shy。 Shyness is characteristic of most people
of Teutonic race。 It has been styled 〃the English mania;〃 but it
pervades; to a greater or less degree; all the Northern nations。
The ordinary Englishman; when he travels abroad; carries his
shyness with him。 He is stiff; awkward; ungraceful;
undemonstrative; and apparently unsympathetic; and though he may
assume a brusqueness of manner; the shyness is there; and cannot
be wholly concealed。 The naturally graceful and intensely social
French cannot understand such a character; and the Englishman is
their standing jokethe subject of their most ludicrous
caricatures。 George Sand attributes the rigidity of the natives
of Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they carry about
with them; that renders them impassive under all circumstances;
and 〃as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions they traverse
as a mouse in the centre of an exhausted receiver。〃 (4)
The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman;
German; or American in courtesy and ease of manner; simply because
it is his nature。 They are more social and less self…dependent
than men of Teutonic origin; more demonstrative and less reticent;
they are more communicative; conversational; and freer in their
intercourse with each other in all respects; whilst men of German
race are comparatively stiff; reserved; shy; and awkward。 At the
same time; a people may exhibit ease; gaiety; and sprightliness of
character; and yet possess no deeper qualities calculated to
inspire respect。 They may have every grace of manner; and yet be
heartless; frivolous; selfish。 The character may be on the
surface only; and without any solid qualities for a foundation。
There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of peoplethe
easy and graceful; or the stiff and awkwardit is most agreeable
to meet; either in business; in society; or in the casual
intercourse of life。 Which make the fastest friends; the truest
men of their word; the most conscientious performers of their
duty; is an entirely different matter。
The dry GAUCHE Englishmanto use the French phrase; L'ANGLAIS
EMPETREis certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at
first。 He looks as if he had swallowed a poker。 He is shy
himself; and the cause of shyness in others。 He is stiff; not
because he is proud; but because he is shy; and he cannot shake it
off; even if he would。 Indeed; we should not be surprised to find
that even the clever writer who describes the English Philistine
in all his enormity of awkward manner and absence of grace; were
himself as shy as a bat。
When two shy men meet; they seem like a couple of icicles。 They
sidle away and turn their backs on each other in a room; or when
travelling creep into the opposite corners of a railway…carriage。
When shy Englishmen are about to start on a journey by railway;
they walk along the train; to discover an empty compartment in
which to bestow themselves; and when once ensconced; they inwardly
hate the next man who comes in。 So; on entering the dining…room
of their club; each shy man looks out for an unoccupied table;
until sometimesall the tables in the room are occupied by
single diners。 All this apparent unsociableness is merely shyness
the national characteristic of the Englishman。
〃The disciples of Confucius;〃 observes Mr。 Arthur Helps; 〃say that
when in the presence of the prince; his manner displayed
RESPECTFUL UNEASINESS。 There could hardly be given any two words
which more fitly describe the manner of most Englishmen when in
society。〃 Perhaps it is due to this feeling that Sir Henry
Taylor; in his 'Statesman;' recommends that; in the management of
interviews; the minister should be as 〃near to the door〃 as
possible; and; instead of bowing his visitor out; that he should
take refuge; at the end of an interview; in the adjoining room。
〃Timid and embarrassed men;〃 he says; 〃will sit as if they were
rooted to the spot; when they are conscious that they have to
traverse the length of a room in their retreat。 In every case; an
interview will find a more easy and pleasing termination WHEN THE
DOOR IS AT HAND as the last words are spoken。〃 (5)
The late Prince Albert; one of the gentlest and most amiable; was
also one of the most retiring of men。 He struggled much against
his sense of shyness; but was never able either to conquer or
conceal it。 His biographer; in explaining its causes; says: 〃It
was the shyness of a very delicate nature; that is not sure it
will please; and is without the confidence and the vanity which
often go to form characters that are outwardly more genial。〃 (6)
But the Prince shared this defect with some of the greatest of
Englishmen。 Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his
age。 He kept secret for a time some of his greatest discoveries;
for fear of the notoriety they might bring him。 His discovery of
the Binomial Theorem and its most important applications; as well
as his still greater discovery of the Law of Gravitation; were not
published for years after they were made; and when he communicated
to Collins his solution of the theory of the moon's rotation round
the earth; he forbade him to insert his name in connection with
it in the 'Philosophical Transactions;' saying: 〃It would;
perhaps; increase my acquaintancethe thing which I chiefly
study to decline。〃
From all that can be learnt of Shakspeare; it is to be inferred
that he was an exceedingly shy man。 The manner in which his plays
were sent into the worldfor it is not known that he edited or
authorized the publication of a single one of themand the dates
at which they respectively appeared; are mere matters of
conjecture。 His appearance in his own plays in second and even
third…rate partshis indifference to reputation; and even his
apparent aversion to be held in repute by his contemporarieshis
disappearance from London (the seat and centre of English
histrionic art) so soon as he had realised a moderate competency
and his retirement about the age of forty; for the remainder of
his days; to a life of obscurity in a small town in the midland
countiesall seem to unite in proving the shrinking nature of
the man; and his unconquerable shyness。
It is also probable that; besides being shyand his shyness may;
like that of Byron; have been increased by his limpShakspeare
did not possess in any high degree the gift of hope。 It is a
remarkable circumstance; that whilst the great dramatist has; in
the course of his writings; copiously illustrated all other gifts;
affections; and virtues; the passages are very rare in which Hope
is mentioned; and then it is usually in a desponding and
despairing tone; as when he says:
〃The miserable hath no other medicine; But only Hope。〃
Many of his sonnets breathe the spirit of despair and
hopelessness。 (7) He laments his lameness; (8) apologizes for his
profession as an actor; (9) expresses his 〃fear of trust〃 in
himself; and his hopeless; perhaps misplaced; affection; (10)
anticipates a 〃coffin'd doom;〃 and utters his profoundly pathetic
cry 〃for restful death。〃
It might na